Commentary: Goddess Nikki Kit on Femdom Chastity & Findom

Goddess Nikki Kit is the founder of DIYFemDom.com. Find more of her work on AVN Stars at @goddessnikkikit.    Long-term orgasm denial and chastity is magic for findom. As a femdom, I like My boys to be weak, locked in chastity, and controlled. Using chastity, orgasm denial, and findom, I make $10,000 per month or more working exclusively as a femdom. Men that are locked in chastity just cannot resist sending Me cash tributes and gifts. I am in the top ten of AVN Stars pretty consistently! You can see why on My AVN Stars account, where I have plenty of free content available. FemDom and Chastity GO together. Female domination is all about the femdom being in complete control. We can all agree on this! To Me, full control means also being in control of My submissives' orgasms. All of My favorite subs wear a chastity cage. I'm not exaggerating on that one. All of My favorite and most obedient subs are locked in either physical or mental chastity for Me. They happily worship Me daily, send tribute every morning to My Empire, and thank Me for My control. Controlling My subs' orgasms is essential for Me to take an interest in them. Mental and physical chastity both work for FemDom. Some people aren't able to wear a chastity cage at all. Occasionally submissives can't wear a chastity device to work. Some subs are never able to find a chastity cage that's right for them. If a submissive is married and playing with chastity without the wife's knowledge, they often can't wear a cage. There are many reasons why men can't wear a chastity cage on their dick 24/7 for their femdom. I get it. Mental chastity is still chastity and can work. It takes a lot of willpower to abstain from masturbating, but it can be effective. Long Term Chastity and Orgasm Denial is Great for FinDom. A sub that is locked in chastity for a FemDom long term is usually feeble-minded. The FemDom has complete control of Her submissive's pleasure and their orgasm. With every day that passes, the will of the submissive diminishes. When a submissive can no longer focus solely on his own pleasure, their mind begins to adjust. The chastity cage puts the focus on the FemDom. As a femdom, I love to lock My subs in chastity. It ensures that they focus on Me because I am the one in control. Orgasm Denial and FinDom Tributes are REAL sacrifices. Cum tributes DO NOT EXIST. I am convinced that men invented them because they only hear what they want to hear. They ended up watching financial domination JOIs, and when the girl said "send a tribute," they assumed that they wanted their cum because what else would She possibly want? I can tell you precisely what She wanted. She wanted the viewer to send money as a tribute while they were stroking away. The fun of FemDom is the pleasure of the female is the essential part. Female domination isn't just about the woman telling the man to precisely do the activity he already wants to do. Real female domination involves putting Her pleasure first. For a sub to make a real sacrifice, he must give up something that he desires. He must also sacrifice something of value to his femdom. Wearing a chastity cage for his femdom and paying Her daily for the honor are REAL SACRIFICES. Offering to sacrifice pleasure and money shows that the sub is genuinely putting Her pleasures first. Financial Domination and sending tribute is part of the ritualistic sacrifice. Every morning My good boys send Me a photo of their numbered chastity lock. They send their check-in updating Me on their chastity training journey. They will then meditate on My power and image for a period before sending tribute from their knees to thank Me for My Empire and My control. This is all part of the morning worship ritual that takes place in My Empire every morning. If they have been consistent with their tasks, they may make a plea for some playtime to indulge some of their kinks. This orgasm control promotes other behavioral changes as they attempt to earn their orgasms. Edging and Orgasm Denial Makes boys Even Weaker. That's part of the beauty of orgasm control. The FemDom uses chastity and orgasm control to withhold the pleasure from the submissive male. The sub must earn permission to masturbate or possibly achieve orgasm. The FemDom controls all of the pleasure with chastity training. It's really the quickest way to bring out the submissive side in a man. They're desperate to cum after My constant tease and denial. Subs will become especially weak and willing if they follow one of My edging instruction videos. It's no secret that I prefer denial because it makes submissive men more likely to spend and submit. The male's drive to cum is so strong that they will jump through many hoops for permission to cum.  As a result of this weakness, I am growing richer, happier, and more powerful by the day. Long Term Chastity weeds out weak submissives. One of the things subs in My Empire strive for is to be owned by Me. There are many requirements for a submissive to be owned by Me, and I only select a few of the best submissive men each year. I like My submissives to be dedicated. I want them to be weak, sure. But they should only be weak for Me.  I do not desire subs that are slaves to their own genitalia and primal desires. The best subs redirect that energy into serving Me with everything they have. By sacrificing their orgasms and going longer than they have ever gone without, they are proving their dedication to Me. I get to see how weak they will become. Many subs promise to go 100 days or more without orgasm to impress Me. Those that achieve these lofty goals definitely pique My interest.